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Showing posts with label inspiration. Show all posts
Showing posts with label inspiration. Show all posts

Monday, April 30, 2012

Homebirth conference and meeting Ina May

Yesterday was the Homebirth Association of Ireland's conference in Dublin and I am very glad I attended. Me and friends drove up early in the morning full of excitement to meet Ina May Gaskin who was to be the keynote speaker of the conference! I would love to tell you about it minute for minute, but I don't have the time so will give a quick overview instead :)

There were a number of people speaking including the wonderful women who organise and run the HBA Ireland (now in it's thirtieth year), parents who had given birth at home and of course Ina May Gaskin. A panel was held to discuss homebirth in Ireland including a variety of women involved in birth (a midwife involved in the set up of a DOMINO scheme in Ireland, another who is involved in AIMS Ireland, a homebirth midwife and new mother, a 4th year student midwife, a midwife involved in Community Midwives Association of Ireland and finally Marie O'Connor who wrote Birth Tides-a book based on a homebirth study in Ireland in 1992). Question and answer sessions brought up some fantastic topics such as VBAC's and HBAC's, why hospitals and hospital midwives are often so unsupportive of homebirth, student midwives gaining experience in homebirth and the 'rules' that disqualify women from the option of homebirth.

How fantastic it was to meet Ina May, such an inspiration to me!  Her talks were very interesting and wonderful, she is someone who is great to listen to in person. She spoke about the Sphincter law, shoulder dystocia and the development of the 'Gaskin Manouver', the Farm in Tennessee, historical and other current birth figures around the world, cesarean births, sheela-na-gigs and many other birth-y things :) Sheela-na-gig is a fertility figure that appeared carved over many early Christian churches, especially in Ireland. Ina May described how we can learn from these for supporting birthing women- a calm, smiling, relaxed face with no wrinkles or lines is linked with less tearing. As you can see from this picture the sheela-na-gig's face is smiling and calm and her vagina is opening wide.

 A sheela-na-gig

 One of the other student midwives I went along with went up to Ina May during a break and started chatting to her and of course pulled us over too so we all got to have a little chat with her by ourselves, that was pretty cool! She asked us about our first birth experiences and commented on how lucky we were that they were minimally traumatic. She really understood how student midwives get traumatised and shocked by what we can experience. A piece of advice from Ina May: Write a journal of your experiences and births, write down your thoughts, intuitions and feelings about the experiences you have had into it. She says this because when you have a run of bad days or are feeling fed up with it...you can forget the good times and why you're following this path, by writing a journal you can remind yourself and re-motivate. At the end of the conference I bought her newest book, Midwife Matters- A Midwife's Manifesta and she signed it for me, also snapped a photo of us together! (photo is not the best, but this was my 33rd hour without sleep...)

 Me and Ina May with my signed books :)

Also due the fantastic-ness of my outgoing student midwife friend we got tips from a lactation consultant for our upcoming breastfeeding exam (and of course for the rest of our careers!). She was a wonderful woman who had breastfed her own four children and really encouraged biological breastfeeding (mother comfortable in best position for her and baby on mummys tummy), especially when struggling with breastfeeding.

Overall, a fantastic day without a doubt. I learnt so much and felt so happy to be there, as my friend pointed out-when we were there we felt 'normal' because everyone was so passionate about birth, homebirth, mothers and their babies. It was wonderful, I would really encourage you to get to as many birth events as you can and if possible meet Ina May!

Saturday, April 28, 2012

A long overdue update and some exciting news!

I was reminded the other day that I need to update my blog, so true! Thought I'd give you a little idea of what I'm up to and how the course is going (and I hope to keep updating more regularly over the summer...ho dee hum).

Right now I have a few things going on, mainly the fact that I *should* be studying for my exams starting next week. This year has the most exams, we have 5 but seen as 3 of them are split into two subjects it feels like studying for 8! I particularly have an issue with pharmacology as the way it is set up in Ireland is that we study with the general nurses meaning we are learning drugs used for Parkinsons and heart disease, ones you very rarely come across when treating healthy pregnant women, grr..

Second thing on my plate, I offered and was accepted to do a presentation for the Virtual International Day of the Midwife on the 5th of May. I am very excited, but it's making me rather nervous now the thought of speaking to so many people. I will be speaking about the experience of being a student midwife with particular concern on the support we do or do not receive, I'm hoping there will be lots to discuss and I won't be the only one speaking for the hour! ope you make it along to some (or all as I hope to!) of the presentations. Check out the line-up on their website, there are some fantastic looking speakers.

And perhaps the most exciting...I'm going to hear Ina May Gaskin speak tomorrow! Ina May is, let's say, one of my idols!! My mum read her 'Spiritual Midwifery' when she was pregnant with me and then gave me a copy for my 17th birthday, if you haven't read it I would really recommend you do. There are some really amazing birth stories and Ina May's information for midwives. I'm bringing my copy with me tomorrow in the hope I may be able to get it signed. She will be the keynote speaker at the Homebirth Association of Ireland conference in Dublin. It's my first time going to one of their events and I'm really looking forward to it even if it is a day out of my study (maybe I can use the excuse that it is studying...?!).

Anyone else studying for exams? Have exciting midwifery related events going on in their lives? Love to hear from you!

Right, I'd better be back to some work now...

Sunday, May 8, 2011

Inspired!


Inspired. This is the feeling I have come away with after each presentation made as part of the Virtual International Day of the Midwife (May 5th) online conference. I listened in to some of the discussions on the day and am catching up with the other now at http://www.internationaldayofthemidwife.wikispaces.com. Midwifes who I look up to and admire were talking there, it was wonderful to hear them speak so passionately about their lives work.
I was inspired to write this post today (and hopefully will be much more actively writing from now on!) after listening to Joy Johnston (http://www.aitex.com.au/joy.htm) talk about how important it is for midwives to blog. By blogging we are reaching our thoughts and words out into the world, we will never make a difference staying silent! So I hope to keep up to date on this blog now, even if some of the posts are short.
I was inspired by Lisa Barrett (http://www.homebirth.net.au/) and Mary Sidebotham and all the other participants at both presentations to speak out about midwifery, get the word out about how birth is normal and should be trusted and treated as such! One quote that someone brought up that really hit home with me was “Speak your truth-even if your voice shakes”. I personally find it difficult to voice my opinion and speak up when I have something important to say. Now I will be speaking my truth even though I know my voice will, at the least, shake!
I was inspired and reminded by Gloria Lemay (http://www.glorialemay.com/blog/index.php) to trust women’s bodies.  She spoke about recognising the signs of progression in the woman’s body in labour and the importance of observation, not interference, in labour and birth. Gloria discussed how the assumptions of midwives are always being challenged and being fooled by women’s bodies, I took from this that a midwife must always be learning from every experience and never take anything for granted.
I feel so proud to be a part of this group of wonderful women, birth activists, midwives, student midwives and you. You should feel proud too, we are a very special collection of people!
Now, I really encourage you to go listen to some (or all perhaps) of the recordings and feel inspired too. I believe that they will soon be turned into MP3 files so we can download them to our iPods, I know I will be grabbing them as soon as they are there so I will have the inspiration of many at my fingertips!